- "It didn't occur to me at the time to be irritated by how quickly he folded when he had those easy fights. I thought he was being reasonable. It didn't occur to me to suspect the way he talked about loving my mind. I was young, and I was accustomed to a very different kind of man. It didn't occur to me to watch for cowardice the same way I watched for anger."
- "My mother had spent the duration of her marriage to my father whittling pieces of herself away, leaving void space for him to whiff through when he swung his fury at her. Once he was gone, she grew to fill those spaces again—to take up the amount of room she should always have been allotted."
- "The way I see it, you mostly stop loving a person the same way you stop respecting them. It can happen all at once if something enormous and terrible falls over the two of you. But for the most part, it happens in inches. In a thousand tiny moments of contempt that unravel the image you had of the person you thought you knew."
~ Excerpts from The Echo Wife, by Sarah Gailey